Thursday, May 21, 2009

Okay so...

The first thing that I've decided I want to rant about is this.

Marriage...now before you think this is about gays shut up. xD Okay that was mean, but its not a gay or not gay marriage type of post and I dont really mean anything insulting when I say shut up. lol

So here's the topic,

When are two people actually married?

There are a large number of people out there who, while not the majority, never actually get married, but are seen as legally married in a way. So when are two people married? Is it when they say I do, after years and years of being together, after having a judge tell them they are, after signing the papers?
Or rather is it once the two have decided mentally and emotionally to commit and consider themselves as married?

I mean if two people who love each other end up some where in the world where no one else is there to witness an actual marriage are they still married if they choose to say they are?

And if so does that mean a couple can be married in a sense over the internet with out ever having met yet?

Well I'll let you guys decide what is true for your lives, but as for mine...

Twilight and myself were married virtually on March 12th 2009. lol

Of course you cant legally get married online, but we consider ourselves married and are greatly looking forward to meeting asap. lol

Well that was a slightly heavier topic than I like to start off on, but I just felt like it was a good one.

Blogging till they kick me from the interwebs,
Dark

P.S.

virtualvow.com its cute and sweet if any of you decide you want to do the same.

2 comments:

  1. "Put me like a seal over your heart,
    like a seal on your arm.
    Love is as strong as death,
    jelousy is as severe as the grave.
    Its flames are flames of the fire..."

    One of my favorite poems.

    I do not believe marrage is that important. If you love someone with all your body, heart, and spirit, why would you feel you have to label it. Its a lable and nothing more. From back when christians were only aloud to be accepted in public together as a couple.

    Love in a moment and love in a lifetime is still love, there is no less love because of the time it occured

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